Premature ejaculation is persistent & recurrent ejaculation before either partner wishes.
Cure & treatment for PE has some associated myths & facts associated with it.
I collected these while answering in wiki answers & Yahoo answers.
1) Myth: "Can pills cure/treat premature ejaculation?" - Questions in wiki, Yahoo
Fact: If by treatment or cure one means that after taking pills one doesn't need to take them again then unfortunately it's not so. Studies have found that effects of pills do not last long.
Pills delay orgasm by few minutes & needs to be taken 2-6 hours before actual sex. Therefore, if somehow one forgets to take pill he is vulnerable to premature ejaculation again.
If some day companies will be able to make such pills which children would take & then they don't need to learn bicycle & practice balancing it then surely they would have find a permanent cure of premature ejaculation in the form of pills. However, it is not so. To delay premature ejaculation permanently one has to learn & practice some techniques. Not a single pill is FDA approved (rightly so).
2) Myth "go & see your doctor, don't feel ashamed"- many answers on wiki, Yahoo answers.
Fact - "call for an appointment with your health care provider if premature ejaculation is causing a problem & doesn't respond to techniques ..."- Medline (that is official & final word).
So first, one does not need to waste any time & money with doctor. Here techniques are those, which some websites give like "stop & start".
So one does not need to go to doctor but learn techniques first. Of course, as Medline says if PE does not respond to them then one should go to doctor.
3) Myth:" First doctor then sex-therapist"- read in a medicinal article.
Fact: premature ejaculation in most men is due to psychological causes, which only a sex therapist can deal. Of course, when cause is biological, then a doctor can help. First, one has to try psychological techniques, or sex thrapist.
Even guidelines for doctors say that patient should be enquired about his psychological behaviour & if doctor himself couldn't do it then he can take help of a sex therapist or psychologist.
4) Myth:" Nobody knows actual causes of premature ejaculation" -same as #3, wiki.
Fact: At least causes of PE are, known to sex therapists, psychiatrists, psychologists, & it is out in open for everybody to read. Of course as new studies happen something more is found on PE.
5) Myth: "Distraction is best technique for controlling premature ejaculation. Think something absolutely boring"- about.com
Fact: this could be worst technique. For this to work you should have ability to distinguish between thoughts & body reaction & one should have control over mind to some extent.
Think you are in the worst possible situation for example your boss is angry at you, can you act like a seer, unmovable, absolutely forgiving. If you can then it is for you. Otherwise, distraction will only lead to less interest in sex.
6) Myth: "Premature ejaculation is in personality"- Yahoo answers.
Fact: No,Control over body responses needs practice; delaying ejaculation too needs practice. Practice makes a man perfect. One just needs to learn techniques, the same way one learnt riding bicycle.
7) Myth: " masturbation leads to premature ejaculation."- Yahoo answers.
Fact: no, in fact many sex therapists recommend that if one is single then one can do various techniques alone to control ejaculation. And of many causes of premature ejaculation lack of sexual experience is also one of the cause.
Well Thank god at least I didn't find anywhere that PE is incurable. So it's not myth & everybody know this fact.
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Mohinish Nirwal is a passionate writer on the subject of sexuality, writing many helpful tips & techniques. For more you can also visit his blog http://control-your-premature-ejaculation.blogspot.com
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